The book that you, My Lady (Dear Reader), now hold within your grasp should not be taken lightly. Being the first volume, it is the initial step on a journey that is laid before the author himself, though its planning stages date back to some of his earliest teenage years. A journey you have freely chosen to join him on. Inherent within our modern times are various enclaves of males who constantly use women as scapegoats for their thirst-driven lamentations. The author is in no way a celebrity, movie star, rich professional athlete, famous musician, or television personality. Nonetheless, he has personally amassed a sexual "body count" of just over one hundred female partners (not counting repeat performances where applicable). No, admittedly not a high number. Although it isn't the lowest number either. The more he went looking for sex, the less sex found him. The less he went looking for sex, the more sex found him. In writing this book, the author seeks to show how over years of work at positioning himself to be a part of - and ultimately lead - such intimate expressions, it became another matter entirely To Learn - and To Be - Himself. Including Being Sex (versus merely "having sex").