Bereaved, Bothered and Bewildered is a personal account of how life carried on for one widow after losing her beloved husband of thirty years. Finding herself stuck in a grief swamp, and trying to crawl out, her husband's enduring message was "always look for the funny side". His second enduring message was "always give the Merlot enough time to breathe" but perhaps that's not so important. So, approach this story with an open mind and consider it not so much a misery memoir, more an intermittent journal back to normality for a baby boomer struggling with some very big things, including her underwear. It's a short, easily digested book that others in the same dark swamp will hopefully find solace in.