Have You Found “the One”?   The decision to get engaged is one of the most exciting and important decisions you will ever make.  51 Things You Should Know Before Getting Engaged  offers the insights and techniques necessary for a successful engagement and marriage. Psychotherapist Michael Batshaw gives you the tools to decide whether your partner is the right one for you, and if so, how to keep it that way.   Some of his advice:   Beware the person of your dreams.   Couples who do everything together do not have a relationship that can survive.   Couples who do not argue are in trouble.   Hollywood gets it wrong.   The truth of the moment is not the whole truth.