Remember how you Coach checked you for a concussion after getting bonked in a game ? 1,2,3 back to play... Embrace this strategically lazy parenting method of making sure your kids are okay and then let them loose to fall again. Sound wrong ? The more your kids experience life for themselves; the calmer and wiser they become. Meaning you do less parenting in the long run ;-) As Mark Twain said; all wisdom starts with bad judgement. How else would we learn ?